It's never-ending discussion we have regardless of the age, gendre or race.....
Recently, this issue's been way-too-much discussed.... 1)my gf emotionally jumping from one potential to another (for what it seems to me to be nothing more than slight passing by interest from a guy); 2) then a guy friend not willing to get back together wi his long-term gf (who he can even see to be the life time partner) for what it seems to be a "more fun & wilder substitutes"; 3) then yet another gal starting a relationship wi a good buddy just to break up in one mth -- the result?? yes both friend and lover lost.... (tho it was more of the guy's fault in my humble opinion); 4) then an IDD call from my ex-company junior asking for love advise on how to get a guy's interest back -- but she has merely gone out on one single date for past 1 mth wi him; 5) then a buddy who makes a move to his best female friend just before he marries his so-called-the-woman-of-his -life (gd that the female friend had more moral, ethic value); 6) then on the side, there are friends who are getting married and giving birth to divorcing and having affairs...... It makes me wonder the whole pt of finding 'The One'...
Of all these odds.... everyone's still constantly in search for 'The One'..... the so-called-Perfect-one..... (even incl. myself i guess).... Given all the contradicting things we do and say... it makes me wonder -- why r people trying to look for Perferct one when themselves are imperfect?? May be it's time to find The Perfect "Imperfect Match"...... just like finding the jig saw puzzle pieces....
Recently, this issue's been way-too-much discussed.... 1)my gf emotionally jumping from one potential to another (for what it seems to me to be nothing more than slight passing by interest from a guy); 2) then a guy friend not willing to get back together wi his long-term gf (who he can even see to be the life time partner) for what it seems to be a "more fun & wilder substitutes"; 3) then yet another gal starting a relationship wi a good buddy just to break up in one mth -- the result?? yes both friend and lover lost.... (tho it was more of the guy's fault in my humble opinion); 4) then an IDD call from my ex-company junior asking for love advise on how to get a guy's interest back -- but she has merely gone out on one single date for past 1 mth wi him; 5) then a buddy who makes a move to his best female friend just before he marries his so-called-the-woman-of-his -life (gd that the female friend had more moral, ethic value); 6) then on the side, there are friends who are getting married and giving birth to divorcing and having affairs...... It makes me wonder the whole pt of finding 'The One'...
Of all these odds.... everyone's still constantly in search for 'The One'..... the so-called-Perfect-one..... (even incl. myself i guess).... Given all the contradicting things we do and say... it makes me wonder -- why r people trying to look for Perferct one when themselves are imperfect?? May be it's time to find The Perfect "Imperfect Match"...... just like finding the jig saw puzzle pieces....
1 comment:
you are right that there is no perfect one.
you can only learn to appreciate the good in the other person, and ignore most of the bad.
at the end, 2 people should become one, and live and do things as one
it is also about love, and giving, and living for the other person, for life, and hopefully for the whole family + kids
hope this helps
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